There are so many advantages to partaking in phone sex over in-person sex. The lack of diseases and viruses when using your own hands and toys is probably the biggest advantage, but what about when you want to try something new? Whether it’s something you saw in a hot porn flick or something that your friend mentioned, trying new kinks and fetishes can be intimidating, especially when you don’t want to feel silly or disappoint your partner. With phone sex, you don’t have that risk.
In general, trying new sexual fantasies and kinks during phone sex is safer than exploring new things in person. There is less risk of injury and you’re less likely to feel pressured to follow through with something you don’t enjoy.
Additionally, during phone sex, you can use toys that you are comfortable with without feeling the need to impress your partner or push through any discomfort. For example, if you want to try any anal play, you can start with a pinky or the smallest butt plug you can find, and you don’t need to worry about your partner getting carried away and trying something that’s too big too soon.
You won’t feel self-conscious when you use plenty of lube, when needed. New toys and new areas can be intimidating to explore, so the more lube you use, the better. When you’re with someone in person, you may feel like you want to impress them by going in dry or not using enough, but you don’t have that hang up over the phone.
Like we said in the beginning, exploring a new fetish or kink on your terms without feeling like you’re disappointing someone if you don’t like it, is a huge bonus. You don’t have to worry about disappointing someone if they are not physically there to judge you.
With phone sex, you can get new ideas from different partners each call. If you feel like your life is a little too vanilla, it’s easy to find a new partner every time who has a different kink or fetish for you to try, so you can explore things you may not have considered before.
Finding new fetishes and kinks also allows you to talk through it before trying it physically so you get comfortable with the idea before doing it in person. If you can’t bring yourself to talk about something, or just the idea makes you cringe, there is no pressure to try the new idea in that moment.
Finally, once you find your new favorite thing to do, practicing on the phone will make you better at it next time you have sex in person. With enough practice, you’ll seem like a pro, and no one will know that you’ve only done that new favorite move on yourself!
Trying new things is fun and trying them in a safe and non-judgmental environment removes any stress associated with a new situation. Go have fun and find your new favorite kink! There’s more to explore than you can ever dream of!