Phone sex is a lot of fun, but it doesn’t just happen. Generally, people want to get to know each other a little bit, first, before they start to get dirty. This is perfectly fine and can make the phone sex more fulfilling and personal, but sometimes people don’t know when their partner is hot and horny, and ready for some fun. Knowing when to make that leap isn’t difficult, if you know what signs to listen for!
When you are speaking with someone in person, it’s easier to tell when they are turned on and horny. People tend to make more eye contact in a seductive manner, and they find reasons to touch you more often. This can be a gentle touch on the knee or shoulder, or a slap on the butt on occasion. Generally speaking, if someone looks at you like you’re a decadent dessert, then they probably want to run their mouth all over your body.
When you’re chatting on the phone, being able to tell when your partner is turned on and ready for some freaky phone fun is slightly more complicated, especially if they’re too shy to tell you. Thankfully there are still ways to tell when your chat partner is hot and horny!
The first indicator is usually in their voice. I don’t mean in what they’re saying, but in the actual, physical sound of their voice. When a woman is feeling lustful and erotic, her voice will usually go up in pitch, slightly, or move to a slightly higher octave. She will also become gigglier, even when things aren’t that funny, and she will sound more playful, overall. For men, their voice tends to get a couple octaves lower. I’m sure you’ve heard a man’s voice being described as huskier when they’re turned on, and this is where that comes from. A man who is turned on and attracted to you will sound more “manly” when they speak to you.
Next, your partner will start being flirtatious. This can start with something as simple as a compliment, and often moves to more personal questions. These questions can be anything from “How soft are your lips?” to “What is your favorite part of my body?”. Anything that takes the conversation to a more intimate level is a strong indication that your partner has one thing on their mind, and it’s nice and naughty!
The most obvious way to tell if your partner is ready for some role-playing action is if they initiate it! If they say something like “Do you want to have phone sex?” then you are in the clear, and you don’t have to guess what they want! They may also just initiate by asking what you would do to their body if you were there. If they ask you this, then be explicit and graphic! They are already turned on, and probably already touching themselves! Don’t be afraid to get naughty with them and get those pants off so you can explore your own intimate parts, and then one thing can lead to another!
Telling when your phone chat partner is turned on may not be as easy as telling when someone is horny in person, but there are still clear indicators, if you know what to look for. If you are ever in doubt, then don’t be afraid to just ask them if they want to have some fun! The worst they can do is say no, but it’s unlikely that they will turn you down! After all, you are a sexy, sexy stud!