With men, knowing when they are horny and turned on is easy – men are always horny. If a hot woman were to walk up to a random guy and ask if he wanted to have sex, he would respond with a resounding “yes”. With women, it can be a bit more complicated. Women don’t have the physical indicator that they are turned on the way men do, and women are more likely to play hard-to-get. If you ever need to know how to tell when she wants you, though, there are subconscious indicators that she will display, even when she’s playing hard to get.
When a woman is tuned on, her breathing is faster and deeper. It may be difficult to hear over the phone, but it’s easier in person. It almost sounds like she’s trying to memorize your scent one breath at a time. This doesn’t mean she will be panting like a dog, but she will sound slightly breathless.
She giggles more, even though you know you aren’t as funny as she makes it sound. Women giggle when they’re happy, sometimes for seemingly no reason. You trying to be funny, or when you make her feel gorgeous, this will make her giggle. This isn’t a normal laugh, but slightly higher pitched, and completely involuntary.
She asks sexy questions and flirts with you. This one will be extremely obvious. When she asks what you’d do to her if you were alone, then she’s essentially asking you to get her alone for some intimate playtime. If she smiles when you look at her, or she smiles and giggles, then you’ll know she’s being flirtatious and waiting for you to make the next move.
She teases you a lot more than normal. This can be verbal or physical. Verbally, she may be playfully combative. For example, if you tell her you’re strong and she says, “prove it,” she wants to see your muscles and she probably finds you physically attractive. This can also include silly name calling or touching you in intimate places “accidentally”. If a woman calls you a butthead and playfully pushes you, she wants you to kiss her. Just go for it.
She tells you what she’s wearing – or not wearing. A woman will never say, “I forgot to put on panties today,” unless she wants you to visualize her without panties on. Women love knowing that you’re imagining them in certain outfits or completely naked, when they’re horny. If she tells you when she’s wearing unprompted, then you have an opening to tell her what you’d take off first, if you were near her.
If she moans when you say something sexual, then she needs your touch. This is generally an involuntary reflex as she imagines you doing something naughty to her. If you tell her you want to lick her and she moans, she’s imagining you between her legs, and it turns her on and she’s definitely into it. Keep going!
Sometimes it’s extremely obvious when a girl wants you, and in an ideal world, she will make the first move. For more realistic situations, though, pay attention to those involuntary noises and go from there. Women love knowing that you pay attention to their cues and when you can tell that they’re horny for you and your body!